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Title: my grandfather
Post by: ekg on December 11, 2012, 07:58:48 pm
is dying.. tonight, tomorrow.. now..? Hospice is keeping him pretty well sedated so that he won't be in any pain.. His breaths are very shallow and labored..he's lightly 'gasping'.. so it's going to be soon..but I had to come home for a cpl hrs and just get away from it..

He's the hubby of the g/mother I lost last year on Halloween(my b/day).. He's the one I've(we've) been caring for for awhile.. the WWII/Iwo Jima vet..the one I've lived next to my entire life.. the one I am so exceptionally close to..

He's the reason my g/mother's death was easier on me than I thought it could be..

This one's gonna hurt.


anyway.. on my way back over there.. thanks for listening.. :'(


Title: Re: my grandfather
Post by: uselesslegs on December 11, 2012, 08:07:47 pm
My best to you and all concerned.  If you need to vent, yell, or just mumble...feel free to call.


Title: Re: my grandfather
Post by: Howey on December 11, 2012, 09:16:21 pm
I'm so sorry.


Title: Re: my grandfather
Post by: reverend_darth on December 11, 2012, 11:10:37 pm
What a wonderful organization Hospice is.  Talk about doing god's work.


Title: Re: my grandfather
Post by: spinner on December 11, 2012, 11:56:29 pm
is dying.. tonight, tomorrow.. now..? Hospice is keeping him pretty well sedated so that he won't be in any pain.. His breaths are very shallow and labored..he's lightly 'gasping'.. so it's going to be soon..but I had to come home for a cpl hrs and just get away from it..

He's the hubby of the g/mother I lost last year on Halloween(my b/day).. He's the one I've(we've) been caring for for awhile.. the WWII/Iwo Jima vet..the one I've lived next to my entire life.. the one I am so exceptionally close to..

He's the reason my g/mother's death was easier on me than I thought it could be..

This one's gonna hurt.


anyway.. on my way back over there.. thanks for listening.. :'(

Love ya Kelli.

spinner


Title: Re: my grandfather
Post by: ekg on December 12, 2012, 07:57:24 am
he died at 9:50pm..

We couldn't have done it without hospice.. the amount of amazing they are is incalculable..

thank you all for the thoughts..

 :'(


Title: Re: my grandfather
Post by: FooFa on December 12, 2012, 11:44:05 am

Glad that he was able to have a semi painless passing. Positive energies to all connected. Celebrate the life and person.

Grandparents are the best.


Title: Re: my grandfather
Post by: Howey on December 12, 2012, 12:15:26 pm
Sorry, again. Hospice does wonders in making a horrible situation a little more comfortable for the family.


Title: Re: my grandfather
Post by: uselesslegs on December 12, 2012, 12:43:52 pm
Got you and the Fam in my thoughts.  And yes, Hospice is amazing.  Let me know if there's anything I can do...don't hesitate to ask.