That made sense in my fuck'in head.
it made complete sense.. and you're absolutely right! with the exception of you, D was the only 'board' friend I ever had 'real life' contact with on a regular basis. Molly and I used to talk to each other but that dropped off after I stopped going out to gigs so much, but it never did with D. LOL I don't know if he told each new secretary about me or what but when I'd call the new one would say "I'm sorry he's in with a patient can I take a message and have him call you back?" and I would say "Tell the old man it's Kelly".. and 9 out of 10 times he'd pick up the phone and say "What do you want bitch" in that totally singular and immediately identifiable rasping voice of his.. and if it wasn't phone calls, it was emails..extremely personal emails.. we were each others 'psychiatrist'... nothing was off the table in our talks no matter how embarrassing or personal.. or financial...Hell, we'd even exchange Christmas gifts every year and every year he'd send me the new 'Christmas photo'..
for all the people that just never 'got him' and hated him... I could never get
them and it really made me wonder about what kind of personal issues they carried around in their real lives....
I can tell you Chuck that he never held any animosity towards you about anything. Once I explained to him the limitations of your lifestyle he totally understood. I think you probably go thru that alot, people either seeing you out or 'reading' you online and then not thinking you're really *that* disabled.. not realizing that yeah you went out, but then it took you a week to recover from the excursion.. or yeah you posted a tome, but that was the last you typed out for the next 4 day while your dexterity took a break...When I explained that you weren't as healthy as you appeared to be, he understood and never held anything against you..
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BoH, you're correct... no one.