Uncle Sugar

They do this shit all the time. Say something or do something that makes most everyone else just sit and blink, blank and expressionless, and then they're like, "Whaaaaa? Wha'd I say?" And then a short time later, with balls the size of a Volvo, they will look you dead in the eye and insist that you need to stop engaging in the very thing that left you slack jawed when you heard them say it the first time...and you're just like, "Huuuuuuuuuuuuh??? Fucking exccuuussseee me???"

This whole thing needs to be re-framed. You need to take your incubator comment one step further. Ask them directly if they feel it's OK to usurp a woman's freedoms/rights, in favor of a biological process that may or may not go full term and that may or may not cause short and long term medical/mental issues and even death. Force them to admit that they think it's perfectly acceptable to strip the rights and freedoms of an already existing sentient being, for maybe's and potential death. "Well what about the babies rights!?" Oh, you mean the zygote, that may make it to a fetus, that then might make it out of the birth canal alive, that may or may not make the woman carrying it medically or mentally ill or kill her?

I couldn't fucking imagine being told, "Oh, you have no choice in this matter, you're going through with this process whether it medically or mentally harms or kills you or not." I would flip my fucking shit! "But if it might medically, mentally harm or kill me, shouldn't I have some say in this? I mean it is my body being used...?" "Nope...shut the fuck up and gestate bitch!"