You already answered your own question, lilEE:
and then you jumped right into the "why":
That's not a problem of the gays. That's a problem of the bigots. Those who...
but it is your (a gay) problem...you're the one in the minority...its not as big a problem for the bigots as it is for you !
equality on that level won't happen...the majority won't allow it and will fight with everything they have to see that it doesn't...
the social security system will collapse before the federal government condones same sex marriage...which...given enough time
should happen making marriage a worthless aggreement thereby allowing for same sex marriages...with very little benefit